I am currently going through a nasty divorce with my ex husband who's being awfully immature about the whole thing. I went online to just talk to other people, not looking for anyone else by any means. To make a long story short, I ended up falling hard for a guy who is in the military, a few years away from retirement and has a high rank on him. He and I both have the same feelings for each other. We had an instant connection from the start. He's talking about flying me to see him at the military base he's at soon. My soon-to-be ex husband threatened to take my kids from me if I go to another man. I don't want to lose my kids. What should I do?