I have been married for 7 years and we had spent all the thanksgiving and christmas at parents in law's house for the past since I got married, however, I started to think I sometimes want to spend these holidays just with my husbadn and my kids. ( My parents live in abroad.) As they live one hour drive from us, is it strange if we don't visit them? By the way, my husband has 3 more brothers to visit his parents for these holidays. I had grown up in another country, I don't know how important these holidays are. Please give me advice if it is ok not to visit them or not. ( I prefer not to visit every single year.. kind of too much....) thank you.