Perhaps this reply is not as requested but nonetheless it is suggested you forego contacting the spiritual world because of the emotional state of mind being perceived at this end. Instead, read of the steps to researching your family tree starting with your parents and moving in reverse to their parents and keep going. The hands-on technique does more for the seeker than give names. Activities, goals, properties and much more is uncovered with the inclusion of still living relatives that would provide photos, keepsakes and more. Get on a search engine and "genealogy".