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Me and my boyfriend have had a long distant relationship for sometime now, but lately he's been less and less actively talking to me and I don't know why. Even the other day, his status was something like depressing and when I asked him what was wrong and he said all you need to know is that it is not you. And then began to say that he doesn't like people feeling sorry for him.. But if you put a status up wouldn't you be expecting someone to message you to see if you are okay? Ecpecially your girlfriend? I'm wanting to go see him soon but I don't even know if I should anymore.. I even encourage him to go out with his friends as long as he lets me know when he's leaving and when he gets home at night.. Am I asking to much of him? I do worry about him when he's out late nights. And sometimes not even messaging me when he gets home makes me really upset and I don't want to tell him it makes me upset because I'm scared he will get mad at me and break up with me. He does make me the happiest girl in the world sometimes, makes me feel special but then it's like the next day he forgets that I exist sometimes. We used to talk every night on the phone and now it's like make 2 nights a week. Any advice on what I should do?
asked Feb 10, 2014 in Relationship by Karissa
   

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The description of this relationship and the verbage used says the end is inevitable. There will be no point in prolonging the expected. Allow that young man to enjoy his new life without your demands. Even mature men and women understand long distance relationships do not last very long and agree to let the other know if a break is necessary. A visit will not fix the situation and you probably know this.
answered Feb 10, 2014 by The.Sage Inquisitive Expert (93,460 points)

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