How do I get my boyfriend to stop arguing with his dad? I love him so much but it's becoming a huge problem and I can't seem to enjoy my time with him anymore and he doesn't know when to stop. I can't do the whole "if you love me you will stop" because we both know he loves me. But he can't seem to stop! It just frustrates me because I went through the same things with my parents but when I try to tell him a better way to do it, he says he understands but he doesn't do anything different. Pleas help. I'm desperate.