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How can I tell if its love or lust I feel for him?

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ok so I liked this boy but compared to me he was nine years older.i developed feelings for him,i practically needed him. I dreamed about him I thought about him I even started cutting over him . we were like best friends.then he move and I overdosed pills and had to go to hte hospital.i still cry over him I cut e ery now an dthen.but my world is just so.............Emty,lost I can barely breathe without him but alls I need to knkw is if its love or lust plEs help me :,(

 

asked Nov 29, 2012 in Relationship by ardasiaterry Novice (170 points)
   

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Love is something that you feel for your partner in all ways, like you feel like spending time with her, talking to each other, going out for dates, candle light dinners, understanding each other, sharing gifts etc. whereas lust is something you just feel like having a physical contact with each other and nothing more.So you can judge for youself what are your feelings
answered Apr 29, 2013 by christinek Inquisitive Expert (23,700 points)
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I think it love but if its going to hurt you or can't possibly work out you should move on. If it can work tell him before it hurts you even more.
answered May 15, 2013 by chocolatehermione Member (900 points)

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